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counseling for anxiety and depression

 

 

 

 

 

 

Stress, anxiety, panic

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Increased Cingulate Gyrus

Used with permission from the Amen Clinic.


Anxiety and Panic Attacks

Anxiety affects everyone at some level.  We get stressed and we rush around.  In spite of our technological advances that make our life "easier," we don't seem to be free from the stress factor.  Stress and anxiety can really move in a direction than can be quite scary.  We may not even know that we are experiencing anxiety.  A third of everyone will suffer from some kind of anxiety disorder.  How do we know we have an anxiety disorder?

 

The Symptoms of Anxiety

  • General nervousness

  • Thinking and over-analyzing too much

  • Body sensations of rapid heart-beat, difficulty breathing, sweating, breaking out in cold sweat and shakiness

  • Hyperventilating

  • Predicting the worst and "future tripping" (what if?. . .)
  • Intrusive and obsessional thoughts, usually about safety issues
  • Worrying and not being able to think positively
  • Feelings of "out of control" and that one is going lose one's mind
  • Self doubt

You may experience some of these symptoms or possibility all of them.  Feelings of embarrassment and shame come up for people as they talk about their thinking and episodes.  Sometimes we can have bizarre or irrational thoughts.  This sometimes compounds the issue making it a private problem and keeping us from reaching out for help and support. 

There is a Solution to Anxiety

If you are suffering from panic attacks and anxiety, you need to know you can and will get better if you take certain steps.  When we are spinning in the vortex of self-doubt and losing control, it is important to know there is something you can do.  Recovery comes with time.  Before we look at the steps from recovery, let us look at the mental, emotional and physiological sides  of anxiety.

The Emotional side of Anxiety

Fear is a good thing.  It is a God-given emotion that tells us something is dangerous in our environment.  It can be used to help keep from poor choices.  It is when our lives are ruled by fear that is when it becomes a problem.  With Generalized Anxiety Disorder

 

The Physiology of Anxiety
While anxiety has a lot to do with one's thinking and spirituality, it also has to do with our bodies. 

 

 

One physical aspect of anxiety involves centers in the brain called basal ganglia. These centers deal with fear and fine motor skills.  When we experience panic or extreme anxiety, these centers become over-active.  We may predict the worst, become shaky and become too sensitive to body functions.  We feel and experience too much.  We feel our heart beating.  We are too aware.  This is useful if we were in a situation where we need to escape from a real danger.  People who have had a panic attack will do everything they can not to experience another one.  It feels like certain death and loss of control.  It is the over-control that can actually make the condition worse.

Anxiety can also be triggered by obsessive thinking.  These thoughts usually are repetitive and difficult to redirect.  In brain imagine we see that when this happens we see overactivity in the cingulate gyrus.  We might worry about our health, germs, or disease.  We might experience intrusive thoughts about hurting someone or ourselves.  Fear of what people are going to think about us and worry about losing control are also classic symptom of anxiety. 

It is important to know that people do and recover from anxiety.  The first step is to find some one "safe" to share your feelings and what has happened.  Talking with some can help us gain perspective and realize this will pass.

Deep Breathing and Meditation
Believe it or not, deep breathing and relaxation are very beneficial to recovering from panic disorder and anxiety.  It is very difficult for the person who already experiences anxiety to "calm themselves down."  It usually takes a counselor or someone who knows the process of progressive relaxation.  Just by giving yourself something else to think about, can be the beginning steps to walking out of a panic attack.  How many people feel the relief in just knowing they have Xanax (an anti-anxiety medication) to take.  It is knowing what to do that helps.  Progressive relaxation involves counting, breathing and tightening/relaxing certain muscle groups.  For Christians having a certain prayer or passage from the psalms to meditate is not only connecting with God Who can help, but also gets out mind off of the panicky thoughts.

The Illusion of Control
Another element that people with anxiety struggle with is the need to feel in control.  The irony is that the more they think that they control, the more out of control they are.  We try to control people, places, and situations. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The irony is that we often try to control the things we don't have control over, which are "people, places and things" and yet we have learned to control what we can.  We can change how we respond to live, rather than "re-act."  Many who have been traumatized in their past, have structural differences to overcome in their brains.  Brain scans demonstrate this.  We can train ourselves to think differently and more realistically. 

Treatment

In recovery from anxiety, we work on "letting go," and changing irrational belief systems.  The process of counseling can be helpful to help the client let go of negative beliefs and to think more healthy thoughts.  Cognitive Behavioral Therapy which involves changing negative beliefs or irrational beliefs into more healthier beliefs.  This is a process and once the thinking has changed, the panic usually doesn't come back.  One can learn about themselves in this process.  The whole crisis once it is over can become a real blessing which has developed muscles to handle life better by letting go more.
 

Medication can be useful for debilitating anxiety to help a person begin to feel better so that they can work on their thinking and lifestyle patterns that are causing the anxiety.  It is important for the person to go beyond just wanting to "feel" better, but to "get" better.  Pain can motivate us to work on our salvation process. (Hebrews 2:12)  Unfortunately, once the pain is gone, sometimes so is the motivation to "get" better, that is to really have a change of heart. 

 

One may need to prioritize and not do too many things.  One may need to look also at what is happening in their spiritual life.  It was St. Anthony the Great (250-356 AD), the father of monasticism, said that he "know longer feared God, but loves him."  By this, he is not saying that he didn't have a healthy or reverential "fear of God."  The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.  But we are talking about freedom from fear that was brought on by sin brings and how perfect love can cast out fear.  As we progress in our healing from sin through love, we gain freedom from fear.

1 John 4:17-19
17 Love has been perfected among us in this: that we may have boldness in the day of judgment; because as He is, so are we in this world. 18There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. 19We love Him because He first loved us.

Most of us cannot say that we have been made perfect in love, and thus we struggle with some form of anxiety because of our sin.  But we an actually use our anxiety to help us get closer to God.  So it is not something to be eradicated, but to be channeled.  We should fear our own mortality so that we can make every opportunity to repent today, right this moment.  God can then transform our minds and help us change our thinking. 

We often get anxious over the wrong things.  We often worry about temporal things, clothing, shelter, food, and provision.  We worry what people think of us.  Yet we don't worry about sinning.  If we have a healthy fear of God and a healthy fear of sinning, we would be fearful of saying judgmental things or criticizing our brother.  If we could only have a phobia of pornography or a fear of offending our spouse and children.

We need to remember that God loves us and has everything we need for salvation and freedom from anxiety.  May God grant this to us by His Grace.

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